This
summer, at the ripe old age of forty-six, I finally popped my ‘festival cherry’!
Now I
like to think of myself as a kind of fun loving gal, and am always more than
appreciative of a bit of quality live music, so why have I not donned my Wellies
and Daisy Dukes, thrown my tent over my shoulder and headed off for a wild
weekend in a field before now?
I’ve
been to plenty of music concerts and one day festivals (in fact I’ve even
performed at a few), and actually love nothing more than being out in the open
air, dancing and singing, with the beat of a good strong drum and bass thudding
in my chest. Add a bit of sunshine (if
you’re lucky), a few cheeky drinks and, well, that’s my kind of heaven.
What’s
been my problem with a weekend of ‘festivalling’ so far then, and what made me
change my mind this year? Well, for a
start, my ‘kids’ have been big festival goers over recent years, and I have
seen the state they come home in! I
cannot begin to describe the smell of their clothes and tents (which were so
bad on one occasion, we literally just binned the lot), not to mention the grey
look on their faces and bags under their eyes, due to lack of sleep and a
ridiculous excess of alcohol. They’ve
regaled me with tales of their “brilliant” weekends, involving activities which
I won’t go into (all legal of course – well at least the ones they’ve told me about), but which are most definitely
not my idea of fun. They also seemed
to take great pleasure in watching me squirm as they described what had been
their toilet and washing facilities for the past few days.
I
did, when my family was young, dabble in the caravan thing, but I have never
been a true camper (well, apart from once in a two man tent during my late
teens, which resulted in tears and a last minute check-in at a local B&B, I’ll
say no more!) In fact, up until now, the
very thought of sleeping under canvas
has always filled me with horror and brought me out in a cold sweat! Anyone who knows me well would vouch for
this, and I think I’ve probably surprised many by taking the plunge this year
(actually, no-one more-so than myself).
So,
what did make me reconsider and go
for it this summer? Well, I've always loved live music and I guess I was
just feeling adventurous, in the mood to do something I hadn’t done before,
something that was way out of my comfort zone… a new experience I could tick off my list etc, etc. Yes, I know, you seasoned campers / festival
goers are probably thinking ‘what on earth’s the big deal, she’s been camping not base- jumping!’, but for me, and my anxieties around camping (in
particular the loos), it may as well have been base-jumping!
Anyway,
how did it go? In a deliberate
attempt to avoid scenes of teenage alcohol induced carnage (which seems to be part
and parcel of many of the larger festivals), we decided to go for the small,
family friendly option (remember my blog is
from a post-forty point of view ;-), and eagerly booked our tickets for Wickham.
Where?! I hear you say. Well, Wickham is
a beautiful little village, two miles north of the town of Fareham (near
Portsmouth), so it was a bit of a treck for us from up T’North, but well worth
it.
The
festival site itself (covered in masses of soft, glistening, golden straw -
great for soaking up the mud!) is located in a picturesque rural setting on
rolling farmland, which works perfectly with the general vibe of the festival,
and is what I would describe as ‘Folkesque’.
Although this festival is described
as a ‘Folk’ festival, the music is by no means exclusively Folk, and there
really is something to suit pretty much everyone’s taste. You may not find big names such as Dolly
Parton headlining Wickham, but you will
find an absolute wealth of talent and breath-taking musicianship on the main
stage, including some fairly
well-known acts such as James Blunt, The Lightening Seeds, The Ukelele
Orchestra of Great Britain, and Bellowhead. There were also a few other blasts
from the past including Hazel O’Conner (remember her from the 80’s?!)… I wasn’t exactly a fan of her’s back then,
but I was very impressed with what she’s doing now, which is writing some
fantastic music and singing alongside two amazingly talented lady musicians,
one on keys, the other on sax. I enjoyed
Hazel’s set so much that I bought the CD.
There were also two other smaller stages, one featuring new, young
talent and the other dedicated to acoustic sets.
As
with most festivals I guess, there were loads of craft stalls, real ale tents,
an international food fayre, children’s entertainers, vintage clothes stalls, a
pop-up bar, a solar cinema and so on. As
I was determined to completely embrace my first time festival experience, I
wasted no time in getting into the spirit by buying (and wearing for the whole
weekend) a flower headband and a ‘hippy’ style hoodie, having a henna tattoo,
sampling a different culinary delight every day (with plastic cutlery, from polystyrene
containers, whilst sitting on the floor), and of course drinking copious
amounts of alcohol. I even bought myself some incense sticks and an ash catcher.
Wickham
itself (which we visited one day for some more cash – no cash machines on site),
is a lovely little village and well worth a trip. There was also a local Farm
Shop and Tea Rooms right next to the campsite – very handy!
If
we had one complaint about our festival experience, it would be on the subject
of our wrist bands. On arrival at the festival
site, we joined a fairly lengthy, snake-like queue to receive our bands. We were expecting this to be the case though,
and the queue was dealt with pretty quickly and efficiently by the friendly and
welcoming festival staff. We were however rather hoping for a nice colourful
fabric wrist band, as we’d seen the kids come home with from other festivals (and
then not take off for six months or more!) Instead we got plain, plastic bands that
scratched every time they brushed against your skin (a bit like the ones you
get when you’re admitted to hospital!).
Sorry Wickham, but at £150 each for a weekend ticket, we were expecting
wrist bands with a little more style and comfort… yes I know, nit-picking!
So,
we thoroughly enjoyed the whole
festival experience, but what about the camping? Well, we were greeted in Wickham on day one
by lashings of rain, thunder and lightning… great! Nevertheless, we zipped up our rain coats and
got on with erecting the tent (I didn’t have a clue, and it was hilarious!)
Luckily, my husband is a dab hand at this camping malarkey, so I was in safe
hands. In no time at all, the rain had
given way to the sunshine, and we were pumping up the air bed to the sound of
the kettle boiling away on the cute little camping stove (all quite a novelty to
me!)
Even
though I do say so myself, I think I coped well with my first camping
experience. I’d taken a hot water bottle
so I wasn’t cold and miserable at night (one of my biggest camping anxieties
was the lack of central heating!), and in fact found our tent to be really
quite cosy and comfortable. I wasn’t
looking forward to struggling with a camping stove either, but was to be taken
aback at how territorial my hubby was over his camping gear and how he insisted
on cooking our bacon and eggs in the mornings (the only other time he cooks
really is when we barbecue, although he can do a mean Sunday Roast when he puts
his mind to it). However, keen to fully
involve myself in this new experience I insisted that I had a turn at cooking
breakfast too… just the once though!
And
so, to what was without doubt my biggest camping fear and anxiety of all… the
loos! On arrival at Wickham we had opted
for the ‘quiet’ campsite, one of the reasons being that on this site you could
park your car next to your tent, much more convenient than hauling your
belongings over half a dozen fields.
However the quiet site did not have
the ‘Posh Wash’ toilets and showers that were advertised on the festival website. Instead our site had just four, 'Loos R Us' cubicles (you know the type I mean), and no showers. The loos were fine for the first day or two,
but by day four were quite literally stomach churning! Did I cry? no, not once. Instead, armed with my own loo roll, wet
wipes, and taking a very deep breath before I entered the cubicle, just got on
with the job in hand. Although we had
read that the other campsite had “posh” loos and showers, it was a little bit
of a walk away from our site, so we decided to just make do with the facilities
at hand. That is, until the last day when
we decided on our way to the arena, that we’d check out these so-called posh
toilets … wow, sheer luxury! Beautifully
clean, serviced toilets and showers equal to the standard of your average
budget hotel, we had missed out, big time!
Ah well, lesson learned for our next visit, and I could take pride in
the fact I had conquered my anxieties and survived the grotty loos! In fact, speaking to one lady (who was a
regular at Glastonbury), and said the toilets that we had been using were some
of the worst she’d ever seen, strangely left me actually looking forward to my
next festival and camping experience (not even the loos will spoil my
enjoyment!)
And
so, my new motto in life is going to be ‘to
never again close my mind to anything,
however fearful I am, without first giving it a go’. Actually, I have tried to adopt this
philosophy on life before and it’s not easy, but this time I’m determined…
bring on the next new experience!
If you're looking for a gentle, family friendly, talent packed introduction to summer music festivals, Wickham could be just for you! http://www.wickhamfestival.co.uk/
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